| September 8, 2006
I was totally unaware of my rights
and my strength, when I first contacted Manavi and came to
Ashiana. I was helpless, shattered and broken person who had
no confidence in herself, no sense of her rights and very
scared to question others intents and motives interfering
with my personal life to the extent of disrupting its normalcy.
For me future was black. I was in
such low spirits that there was not even desire to have a
hope for a better future. Betrayed and deceived by my now-soon-to-be
ex-husband who at that time was the only one I trusted and
loved completely and then used and abused by my own relatives
here. I had become numb to my own situation and its effects
on my daughter.
Now when I look back at the past year
I can't believe the person that I had become from zero confidence,
no self esteem. And if Manavi had not extended its helping
hands I might still be the same person. I am so thankful to
Allah Almighty for sending me help through Manavi.
Today I find myself a strong person;
someone who can take a stand for her and other's rights. Someone
who will stand up for herself, and equally importantly, someone
who truly believes in the power of almighty, and now who is
proud of who she is. Some one who not only sees a future but
truly believes in that.
In the past year Manavi helped me
regain my equilibrium/ stability and my sense of self. Manavi
through its services and its dedicated volunteers helped me
to get my self respect and self confidence back to dream again
and to have faith and confidence in my dreams. I could not
have done that without Manavi, be it the Legal Clinic, support
group, counseling or Razia's standing by me during my court
dates in the days when going to the court and facing my husband
used to frighten me to death. For all those gentle helping
hands whether extended to pull me up or used to give me a
push to awaken and get moving in the right direction meant
so much to me. I cannot separate the services offered by Manavi
and cannot categorize them. For me they were all very important.
I haven't mentioned Ashiana until
now, which Almighty has given me. And I don't think I would
be able to put my feelings into words about Ashiana, a roof
over my head - to protect me from being homeless. It felt
like my home with its focus on confidentiality. The best thing
about living in Ashiana is that whoever you are, wherever
you come from, each and every member is different, calm or
hard headed, every resident and member of the house is treated
with equal love, care and attention. As for me being an Ashiana
resident, I would say that Ashiana has given us everything
for living or should I say that more than what one could expect.
Ashiana has provided us with best of its services and given
us a chance to grow and become independent and stand on out
feet, much more than one could think.
Manavi's gentle helping hands extended
to pull me out from the darkness of my past to brightness
of my future. I have experienced a tremendous change in my
life. I am thankful to Manavi with all my heart.
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